After observing numerous friends get into relationships recently, I’ve noticed a slight pattern: it’s a long process. Gone are the days when you meet someone, see them every single day of the week and then you become official.
Now it’s the case of a couple of weeks or months until you say, “finally, what took you two so long?”
Referring to a recent example from this weekend, it took them nearly a year. From watching two friends meet, hook up, stay friends, resolve drama until finally today when they became official, it’s no longer a smooth road.
So this case is a good example for me, someone who constantly chases that instant action. I want immediate results or else I grow frustrated and impatient.
I need to get the thought into my head that good things take time.